You don't know. When you look at others, you do not know the circumstances that shaped their experience, and in Christ's dealing with Mary and Simon we see a profound lesson of compassion, pity and longsuffering love that has the power to lead even the most hardened sinner to repentance and transformation. Let us choose to love people the way Christ did--always manifesting mercy without sacrificing justice, for He Himself became our Sin-Bearer and offers us His grace to overcome. When we yield the whole heart to His miraculous, converting grace, all of the fruits of the Spirit without one missing will be manifest in our lives, for Christ abides in us, the hope of glory, as He empowers us to obey His commandments from the heart!
Jesus knows the circumstances of every soul. You may say, I am sinful, very sinful. You may be; but the worse you are, the more you need Jesus. He turns no weeping, contrite one away. He does not tell to any all that He might reveal, but He bids every trembling soul take courage. Freely will He pardon all who come to Him for forgiveness and restoration.
Let us come to Christ, just as we are, and invite all others to do the same. Only in Him and through Him and by Him is there power and pardon to find victory over sin in a moment-by-moment union and communion of our souls with Christ that enables us to do His will, no matter how far we fell into sin! Let us really believe God loves us and means to do us good, and go forth on missions of mercy to bless others, even as Jesus did!